We all have our own ideas and thoughts about how we would like our labour and birth to be, but often for so many it doesn't turn out how we had planned.
For some women a planned caesarean section or planned induction of labour is what may work best for you and your family and for others you may feel strongly about not using pain relief and wanting a vaginal birth. Either way what will always matter at the end is how you felt throughout your experience
If you feel supported, with emotional supports in place, listened to and able to make decisions then ultimately this is what will make you feel like you have had the best birth
So why not try to consider what may be important to you like your values, choices and supports then if things don't go to plan you will still feel like it was the best birth for you